Be Single and Happy Again Workshop

Are you in the slippery slope of a difficult relationship, going through heartbreak where you are on an emotional rollercoaster or are you over your heartbreak but find something is still holding you back?

The pain of heartbreak is very real. At some points of our lives, we experience this mind numbing and heart wrenching feeling. But do you know that with learning some techniques to deal with this, you are not only able to get over this faster, but you may get through this healthier, stronger and wiser?

Using NLP, hypnotherapy and other healing techniques, we would help you get through your heartbreak with a new sense of connection to yourself and to the world.

Ask yourself these few questions:

  • Do you replay every little detail over and over again in your minds, trying to somehow get the pieces to fit – but you still cannot make sense of it?
  • Do you keep thinking and missing him so much?
  • Are you feeling depressed?
  • Do you find it hard to move on and always find things that remind you of him?
  • Are you setting up protective barriers for future relationship in hope to protect yourself from future heartbreak?

Join this 3-hours workshop and you will learn how to settle this unresolved feeling, smooth the passage of lost and develop a finer mind, body and soul. Register at

Learn how to be single and happy again. Learn how love can heal.

“Eventually, you will come to understand that love heals everything, and love is all there is”  – Gary Zukav

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Story I want to tell about marriage and commitment


This is a story that I want to tell about marriage and commitment.

I know a very close friend who is averse to marriage. And he does not even know why he is averse to marriage.

He said is it too conventional – like everyone is expected to do it and those who don’t are pressurised or forced to conform.  He wants to be unconventional.

He said it is okay being alone when he is old. He can picture himself to be happy alone and old. He is totally okay with it.

He also said, while he is averse to marriage, it does not mean he will definitely would not get marry. He will be happy to marry, if he find the one whom he cannot live without.

Is he afraid of commitment? There are times, he was really committed in his relationships, he said, but they did not end up well. He was uncomfortable and his partners were not appreciative and eventually took flight when there were problems in their relationships.

Hence, I want to tell to this friend …………and I know I may or may not have chance to tell him in person.

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Unconditional Love – Part 2


(This is not a personal experience but the word “I” will be used for easy reading)

Dishonesty and lies lead to guilty and resentment. Guilt and resentment lead to more lies and arguments. Most of the time, I keep on continue to justify my dishonest, selfish actions by blaming my partner. So what are the common words used? ‘She/he doesn’t understand, doesn’t care, doesn’t love me anymore.’ The next thing I know, the relationship is in deep shiit and we are heading for a break up. Then, I pay a visit to cupid corner with my emo baggage.

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Bad Days are Good Days

There were two troublesome, cumbersome and tiresome incidents happened on me recently. Instead of blaming, complaining and accusing others, I am  grateful. I realized that humans learn and grow best in those odd situations.

Good Days Bad Days

Two weeks ago on a fine Monday morning, as usual I marched to my little car clumsily with both of my hands loaded with a laptop bag, handbag and jacket. I proceeded to open the door of the car to get in. To my astonishment, I only managed to pull the door a few inches wide and it stuck there. I couldn’t pull it further. How could I get in with the car door opened only a few inches wide? I took a serious check on the door, there was a slight indentation around the edge of the door. I could finally conclude that someone hit my car and ran away.

“Jesus Christ! Who is this jerk, no brain human?  I curse you bastard!”

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Unconditional Love – Part 1


What is unconditional love?

According to Wikipedia, Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as true altruism, complete love, or “mother’s/father’s love”. Each area of expertise has a certain way of describing unconditional love, but most will agree that it is that type of love which has no bounds and is unchanging. It is a concept comparable to true love, a term which is more frequently used to describe love between lovers.

Let’s focus on unconditional love between lovers.

Personally, unconditional love is a two way scenario in a love relationship. It only begins when two people come together, sharing sincere affection and a common goal: First, to honour yourself and the person who shares the relationship with you. You must learn to LOVE and RESPECT yourself before you can even begin to love or respect someone else. Your heart, mind and soul must be full before you are able to share the BOUNTY and reap the rewards that a mutually satisfying relationship can be.

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Living To Die, Dying To Live

A guest post by a special friend, Grace Ling, who has an amazing flair for writing and just like me, she likes to contemplate the sweet mystery of life. Enjoy her post and stay tune for more!

Beginning of one or two weeks ago, the stork was working rather hard. 3 healthy baby boys were born to 3 different happy couples that I know. Bliss and joy tickled the heart as I pored over pictures of the little ones, thankful that all were fine.

The angel of death, however, was not to be left behind. He took away a 14-year-old boy of a Facebook friend’s friend not long after. A sore aftertaste ensued, as I clicked to view the pictures he posted of his son. A fine-looking, fun-loving young man.

Thus is the intriguing cycle of life.

To live is to die, to die is to live.


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Conditional Love


The best and most efficient way to kill a relationship is to believe and act upon the belief that it is the other person who holds the key to your mutual happiness. The man or woman who always says ‘You make me happy‘, ‘I cannot live without you‘, ‘You are my world‘ or ‘You are my soul‘, may think these words celebrate an enduring love. If you believe these lines of words is true and fulfilling, think twice again. In fact, the words are really saying, ‘I have nothing to offer and give more in this relationship‘, ‘There is nothing I can bring to the table‘, ‘It is all about you‘. See the indirect impact from these lovely words? To all of you who keeps ‘blurting’ or flirting with these words, I just want to let you know that you are actually placing all the ownership and responsibility for the success of the relationship squarely on the person’s shoulders.

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Finding Beauty in the Ordinary

beautiful_day____by_cedzAn unexpected and very pleasant thing happened to me today.

I went to Bank Negara (Malaysia’s Central Bank) with the intention to settle an issue with another bank. I procrastinated on this for 6 months due to hum and humdrum in life. Having said good bye to my procrastination (something I’ve learnt in my recent life-changing training), I just felt the sudden urge to complete this issue when I woke up in the morning.

As I was sitting on the sofa, waiting patiently for my queue number to appear on the screen, a smartly dressed young man walked towards me from his service desk. He asked me if he could help me with anything. I was surprised because my number is not called yet. This has never happened to me before. I immediately felt like a VIP and a celebrity. And a sweet feeling welled up inside me just by knowing that this man cared enough to come more than halfway to meet and help me.

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Oh my god, I cheat!


Oh, my goodness! I can’t believe that I have betrayed my beloved husband just like that, who has just given me a brand new diamond ring. Who has promised and sworn to love me and take good care of me forever and ever. I fall in love with another guy whom I think just as good and perfect like him. Ughhhhh, You have no idea of how wrong I am doing and how guilty I am feeling now. Almost every night for the past 2 weeks, I sneaked out to meet him until midnight. I guiltily and shamefully enjoyed the mind-blowing, adventurous, and emotional roller-coaster rides with him. I missed him terribly, slobbered over him insanely and idolized him unquestioningly. Since then he obsesses me wholly and dangerously.

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Can you SLEEP soundly?

Are you EATING well?

When was the last time you POOP smoothly ?

I think the happiest people in this world are the ones who can sleep, eat and poop, and who can do it so effortlessly with contentment without any glitch. Do you agree ?

You may say, “What’s the big deal? Why’s this worth mentioning? Isn’t it normal that people do all these 3 basic routine “ceremonies” daily ?! ”

But I bet with you many of us are suffering from some forms of disability or disarray in not being able to enjoy these 3 simple essential life habits. I am, unfortunately, one of them.

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